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Cassidy Drury is a Kansas City based Luxury Wedding Photographer specializing in documentary and timeless work. She is an expert in her industry and available for travel.

Currently booking 2024 and 2025 weddings

The Wedding Etiquette Guide

The Wedding Etiquette Guide: Navigating Your Big Day with Grace and Joy

Hey there, lovebirds! As a seasoned wedding photographer, I've had the incredible privilege of being the "fly on the wall" for countless love stories. And you know what I've learned? A well-executed wedding that flows with grace and joy is like music to my camera's ears.

So, let's talk about wedding etiquette – the secret sauce to a celebration that's not just memorable but also stress-free. Think of it as the golden rule of your wedding day, ensuring that you, your beloved guests, and even your friendly neighborhood photographer have the time of their lives.

Effective Communication: The RSVP Tango

First up, the art of effective communication. Trust me; it's the cornerstone of a well-orchestrated wedding day. Your guests need to know where, when, and what's happening. Consider a wedding website or fancy invitations – whatever floats your love boat – to keep everyone in the loop.

RSVP Responsibly: The Guestlist Puzzle

You've got to hand it to RSVPs; they're like puzzle pieces that complete the guestlist masterpiece. Prompt responses mean smoother sailing for your catering and seating arrangements. Plus, a well-organized guest list ensures no one is left out of those "say cheese" moments.

Timing is Everything: The Race Against the Clock

Next, the relentless ticking of the clock. Starting your ceremony and reception on time is like hitting the play button on your favorite rom-com. It sets the perfect tone and ensures your photos bask in that dreamy, golden hour glow.

Unplugged vs. Plugged-In: The Great Dilemma

Now, the age-old dilemma – unplugged or plugged-in ceremony? Will your guests be too busy Instagramming to shed a tear during your vows? You decide! But make sure everyone's on the same page.

Collaborate with Your Photographer: The Magic Makers

Your friendly neighborhood photographer (that's me!) is here to capture your fairy tale. Share your must-have shots and quirks so I can work my magic. And yes, give me room to snap those candid moments – that's where the real magic happens!

The Gratitude Game: Show Some Love

Don't forget to show some love to your wedding dream team. A simple "thank you" note or a high-five can make our day. After all, we're here to make your day spectacular, and a little appreciation goes a long way.

Savor the Moments: Enjoy the Ride

Lastly, in the midst of the whirlwind, take a moment to savor the magic. Your genuine joy is like fairy dust, sprinkling its magic on your photos and creating memories that will make your hearts dance for years to come.

In conclusion, wedding etiquette isn't just about tradition; it's about crafting a day that's not just spectacular but also full of heart. Embrace these etiquette tips, and your wedding day will be a symphony of love, laughter, and unforgettable moments. Cheers to a day you'll cherish forever! 🥂💕


Hello, I'm Cassidy, the creative eye behind the lens. My journey as a wedding photographer is fueled by a profound love for watching stories come to life through the art of imagery. Every wedding I capture is a unique tale of love, emotion, and connection, and it's my privilege to translate these moments into timeless photographs. With each click of the shutter, I aim to narrate the beautiful, unfolding stories of couples on their special day. Join me on this visual journey, and together, we'll explore the magic of love and storytelling through the lens. | (913) 744-6998

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