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Cassidy Drury is a Kansas City based Luxury Wedding Photographer specializing in documentary and timeless work. She is an expert in her industry and available for travel.

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Wedding Guest Attire Tips from a Photographer's Lens

Hello, fabulous wedding-goers! I'm Cassidy, your friendly neighborhood wedding photographer, and today, we're shifting the spotlight from the bride and groom to you – the stylish and oh-so-important guests. It's time to decode the art of wedding guest attire, and who better to guide you than someone who's seen it all through the lens? So, let's dive in, shall we?

The Golden Rule: Respect the Dress Code

Before you start raiding your closet or scouring the mall, here's the cardinal rule: respect the dress code. The couple has put thought into their wedding style, and the least we can do is honor their wishes. Whether it's black tie, cocktail, or beach casual, adhere to the code like it's your golden ticket to Willy Wonka's chocolate factory.

Out with the White: The Bride's Color Reigns Supreme

Let's get this one out of the way – unless you're attending an avant-garde wedding where everyone wears white (and you're certain of it), avoid white like it's a swarm of bees. On the big day, white belongs to the star of the show, the bride. Rocking a white dress is like photobombing her moment, and we don't want that, do we?

Comfort Is Key: Dance Floors Await

Weddings are about celebrating love, and celebrations usually involve dancing – sometimes, lots of it. So, opt for attire that lets you boogie down with ease. Ladies, choose shoes that are both chic and dance-friendly, and gentlemen, make sure that suit jacket allows you to break out your best moves.

Mind the Venue: Beaches, Ballrooms, and Beyond

The location matters, folks. If you're heading to a beach wedding, heels might sink faster than the Titanic. Conversely, if it's a grand ballroom affair, flip-flops could look a tad out of place. So, consider the venue and terrain when selecting your attire.

Don't Outshine the Stars (Literally)

Ladies, sequins and bling are fabulous, but remember that you're not auditioning for a disco show. Leave the super sparkly numbers for New Year's Eve and tone it down a notch. This is the couple's time to shine.

The Gentleman's Guide to Suave Style

Gentlemen, a well-tailored suit is your best friend. Whether it's a classic black tuxedo, a sharp navy blazer, or a stylish grey suit, invest in a look that exudes confidence and sophistication. Don't forget to accessorize with a sleek tie or bowtie – the devil's in the details.

Dare to Accessorize: Statement Pieces Rock

Accessorizing isn't just for the bride and her bling. Ladies, statement jewelry, chic clutch bags, and elegant headpieces can elevate your outfit. Gents, a dapper pocket square or a stylish watch can work wonders. Just remember, don't overdo it – we're not decorating Christmas trees.

Layers for Versatility: The Weather Gambit

Weather can be as unpredictable as a rom-com plot twist, so be prepared. Layering is your secret weapon. A stylish shawl, jacket, or cardigan can save the day when temperatures drop or the sea breeze kicks in.

Dress for the Long Haul: Durability Matters

Lastly, weddings can be lengthy affairs. Choose fabrics and outfits that won't crumple like last week's to-do list. You want to look as fresh and fabulous during the final dance as you did during the first.

There you have it, dear guests – a crash course in wedding guest attire from the perspective of someone who's captured countless wedding moments. Remember, you're not just attending a wedding; you're part of a beautiful love story. So, dress the part, bring your joyful spirit, and get ready to make memories that will last a lifetime.

Here's to looking fabulous and celebrating love in style!


Hello, I'm Cassidy, the creative eye behind the lens. My journey as a wedding photographer is fueled by a profound love for watching stories come to life through the art of imagery. Every wedding I capture is a unique tale of love, emotion, and connection, and it's my privilege to translate these moments into timeless photographs. With each click of the shutter, I aim to narrate the beautiful, unfolding stories of couples on their special day. Join me on this visual journey, and together, we'll explore the magic of love and storytelling through the lens.

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